When you fall of the wagon

It seems like Rowan and I are constantly falling off the wagon, so to speak. We get to a point where I am no longer being submissive and he is no longer being dominant. We’re both just getting through the day or night. When this happens it is so hard to get back to where we want to be. Eventually I will say, usually riding in the car with Rowan, we have gotten off tack. Often this will lead to him saying something like, “I know hun, we’re spending too much money.” I will respond with, “Yes we probably are, and we need to work on that, but that’s not exactly what I meant babe.” Rowan will agree and then, more often than not, we get out of the car and go on with life as it was before. The only way that I have seen us get back on the wagon is when I end up getting a spanking, it can be a submission spanking or a punishment spanking, but not usually a quick reminder spanking.

Anyhow, that’s just my thought for the day. Hope the world finds you well.

My best,

-Ree

Spilling Over into Ecstasy.

Lily and John had spent all day out shopping together. Lily needed a new dress for a company party. John didn’t like shopping a great deal, but he liked to see the way Lily’s eyes lit up when she found something that looked just right.

Lily had just found a black, sheer, sleeveless, 1920’s flapper style dress with elegant yet flirtatious tiers. As soon as Lily had the dress on she ran out of the dressing room and into the larger room where John sat waiting. Hardly noticing John she headed directly for a three-way mirror and spun around and around letting the dress twirl about her. She blushed a bit when she noticed John watching her so carefully.

Lily smiled at him and walked over to him using her best imitation of a run way model. She stopped in front of him, slanted her hips to the side, placed her hands on her hips and turned around to walk away. John reached out and wrapped his arms around her waist pulling her back towards him. She laughed and hung on to his sizeable forearms as he pulled her back. “Can I help you?” Lily asked and turned to kiss him. “Yes, I’m ready to take you home,” John growled in a deep whisper. John bit Lily’s lip slightly and she shivered. “I’ll put on my clothes and we can…” John cut into Lily’s sentence. “I’m not waiting for you to get changed, I’m taking you now.” Lily looked at john distressed, but …the dress…I need to pay…” John’s only response was “shhhhhhh,” and Lily knew better than to make a peep.

John pulled the tag off the dress carefully so as not to damage the dress, but roughly enough to make Lily shiver again which made him grin in an evil sort of way. John walked Lily and the tag over to the sales girl who quickly ran John’s credit card. John pulled Lily close to him and walked her out of the store never letting his hand slip from the small of her back. He often kept his hand there in a gentlemanly sort of way, but it meant something completely different to Lily. She knew that it was his way of reminding her and the rest of the world just who she belonged to. He rarely walked in public with her without carefully placing his hand at the small of her back or on the base of her neck. He also felt like it was a good reminder to her that she was to stay with him in public since she had a bit of a habit of wandering – which John felt was unacceptable.

If she wanted to go somewhere without him, John felt as though she should ask, and wait to be permitted. Sometimes when Lily asked to go and look at something else John would tell her that she had to wait. Most of the time Lily took this well and waited quietly until John asked her what she wanted to look at. Depending on what it was, he would let her go on her own or say that they could go over together. If Lily did not take it well, then she was not permitted to go at all. Sometimes John would tell Lily that she had to earn it. The first time John said this in public, he and Lily were at a bookstore, she blushed and looked around to see if any of the contented readers had heard. John had looked at his watch and said “you will be quiet for a half hour as we walk around, this will show me that you have been patient and deserve to be rewarded. Now, not a word, if you succeed we will go and look at whatever you want, but if you do not, I might have to punish you.” Lily had succeeded that first time.

As John and Lily got into his car she thought about that time in the bookstore and the times since then that John had been so deliciously dominant in an everyday situation. Lily was just about to put her seatbelt on when John reached around her and pulled the belt around for her and buckled it at her side. “John I can put on my own seatbelt” Lily said almost laughing. John looked at her with his eyebrows raised.

Butterflies rose in Lily’s stomach as they turned into the yard. Lily tried to stroll nonchalantly into the house but the almost tripped over her own feet in trying to do so. John smiled knowingly as he watched her stumble slightly and looked around to see if anyone had seen her. “Upstairs,” John said without looking at her as he headed into the kitchen to grab a glass of water. Lily looked back at him on the way up the stairs slightly annoyed that he had not even bothered to say please or make eye contact with her as he ordered her around.

Lily walked into the bedroom knowing that he had expected her to go there. She hated having to wait to find out what was going to happen. It made her feel edgy and annoyed and the more she thought about it, the angrier she got. She heard John’s footsteps on the stairs and rolled her eyes. She tried to stay angry, but as she looked at his face, his hard jaw line and ice-like blue eyes. John pulled her close to him and held her tight, pressing his hand to the small of her back, gripping her dress, and gathering the material into a ball. Lily squirmed as the dress became tighter and then came off over her head. John stood looking at her for a moment and reached around to remove her bra. Lily began to slide her panties off but John grabbed her hand and held it tight glaring at her.

“Did I tell you to take those off?” John questioned her with a calm yet displeased tone to his voice. Lily looked at him apprehensively “Sorry, I just thought…” John cut her off bringing his finger to his lips and shushing her. He turned away from her momentarily and pulled 4 silk scarves out of a box in the closet. Forcing her to lie on the bed, John took one scarf and tied her hands together while he tied the other end to the headboard. He tied each of her legs to the two bottom bedposts using two more scarves. The one scarf that was left over was tied around her neck and then to one of the upper bedposts.

John grinned at her spread out on the bed, lying there helpless. “Try to move,” he teased her. Lily squirmed slightly and made an abortive effort to free her hands. She kicked her feet testing the strength of the scarves which bound them – again the effort was fruitless. Lily sighed and gave John her best puppy–dog eyes. “Feigning innocence are we?” John remarked, “That doesn’t work with me darling. I know you far too well.” He slipped his fingers into her pussy and found just what he was expecting. “You’re wet. You’re my little slut aren’t you?” Lily hated that word, everything about it; she refused to look at him and scowled. “Say it Lily, tell me that you are my slut,” he ordered, placing an emphasis on that last word knowing and liking the fact that it would be difficult for her. Lily remained quiet and tossed her head still refusing to look at him.

John shrugged his shoulders. It was her choice and she was choosing a rather painful route. He reached for the scarf attached to her neck and pulled it as he pinched her nipple. “Lily my dear, I am asking you to say something so simple.” Lily refused to respond. “I cannot imagine that you’re choosing disobedience over saying such a simple word, despite your distaste for it.” John emphasized the word distaste with a twist of her nipple that made her gasp. “Fine John, fine, I’m your slut” Lily sputtered. John smirked, “now that wasn’t so difficult was it?” he teased, “However, I am sorry to say that your attitude is lacking, and that I cannot ignore – but I can adjust it, I’m sure. John went to the end of the bed and untied each of Lily’s legs from the bottom posts and then one at a time he tied one to the upper left and one to the upper right posts forcing her legs apart and exposing her bottom and upper thighs. He slapped her upper thighs backs, bottom and her inner thighs five or six times each, enough to give them a slight pink glow.

John stepped back and admired his handiwork once again. Lily pulled against the ties holding her hands trying to reach her stinging thighs. He knew how sensitive the backs of her thighs were. Lily stopped trying to reach her thighs as it was not possible and looked up at John who was smiling at her. “Tell me you didn’t like that,” John growled. “I didn’t, it hurt too much!” Lily wined. John smacked the backs of her thighs again, this time harder and more quickly. Lily wailed, the pain shattering the usual sign song tone of her voice. Tears began to form in Lily’s eyes.

John saw the tears twinkling in Lily’s eyes and kissed one salty tear away as it fell from her wet lashes. He could not help but notice that her pussy was glistening as well. He touched her inner thigh and she shuddered slightly and tried to open herself up more to him. “Please,” she whispered, “please.” She didn’t need ask him again. Lily did not know when John had taken his clothing off and she didn’t have the time to be concerned. As his warm skin pressed against her slightly cooler skin, she lost conscious thought and her senses spilled over into ecstasy.

I'll have a story for you soon

Sorry I haven't been around much. I have had a lot of things to deal with. I have a great story that I am working on....but it isn't finished yet. I hope that everyone is doing just fine.


lots of love

-Ree

New Rules and New Level of Submission

Things have been going really well for Rowan and me recently. I have been working really hard on being submissive. I have been working on a new set of rules which include

1. ask permission before sitting down on furniture
2. ask permission before getting into bed
3. ask permission before putting on or taking off clothing
4. ask permission before going to the bathroom
5. ask permission before consuming alcohol

I only have to adhere to these rules when Rowan and I are alone or when we are with people of like minds (such as Daniel and Lyta). I have to say that I don’t appreciate rule number four. I have been debating this with Rowan but he hasn’t really budged on it. I told him that I didn’t take pleasure in asking before I went to the bathroom and explained to him that I thought that it was weird. Rowan said that he didn’t mean for it to seem strange to me, but that he wanted me to remember that because I belong to him, even the most routine aspects of my life belong to him as well. I am still not sure how I feel about it but I am trying to please Rowan, and he is being very patient with with me as I learn the rules.

I am so happy because I believe that I have finally left my last plateau of submission where I was obeying more to avoid punishment than because I wanted to please Rowan. Now I truly want to please Rowan. I know that there are still times that I forget myself and act in ways unbecoming to a submissive, but Rowan understands it, corrects me, and we go on from there with a clean slate.

Okay, I guess that that’s all for now, I am not feeling very well today. In fact I am feeling down right terrible. Take care every one.

Lots o love

Ree

Lyta's Take

I am glad to be the first to present Lyta's first Blog Piece!!!!

Lyta Says.......

Okay, so Daniel and I have become quite close to Ree and Rowan over the past 7 months or so. We are starting to dip into each other's lives a little more and more with each weekend visit we have. As Ree and Rowan have already mentioned, Daniel and I experienced a mini spanking session on our living room floor. Being the respectable people we are, we looked away, in case this was something that wasn't okay with Ree...which it wasn't, so I'm glad we gave them as much privacy as we could, but yet still be in the room at the same time to hear the slaps..which gave me goosebumps. I wouldn't last one session in the hands of Rowan, let me get that out right now!


Moving on...the past two weekends have become very interesting/confusing/exciting for all of us. Two weekends ago Ree, Rowan and Daniel were having drinks at our place, and I was the sober one (usually not the case.). I dont remember who, but someone made a comment about Ree and I kissing. Ree started saying that I probably wasn't attracted to her and so I had to reassure her that I thought she was attractive, but since I wasn't drinking, I was a little more hesitant than the rest of them. Needless to say, after some prodding by some very drunk men, we kissed!...and then we kissed again! It was really weird having an audience, and even weirder kissing a girl, but all in all,it was nice. We stopped all activities before it turned into something we all would regret once we were sober.


Next weekend rolled around and Daniel and I were expecting Ree and Rowan to ignore the whole thing that had taken place, blaming it on the drinking...we got the opposite response. It seemed like the whole weekend had that in the back of our heads. As was mentioned in the blogs before this, we took a little car ride so that we could get Ree a bridesmaides dress for my wedding. The whole way down was very confusing/exciting for me. I had been talking to all of them about possibly wanting to see what it would be like to be a submissive. It's one thing to be one in the bedroom, but another to actually obey and be submissive in all aspects of Daniel and I's relationship. Ree decided to try and show Daniel what it is he could do to show his dominance. She kept giving me mini welts with an elastic hair piece that I never thought could be used as such a painful weapon! i was wrong! she did it until I kissed her. I am a very spiteful and stubborn person, so it took me a long time to give in, but my arm was burning, so I finally had to.


Again, this is where part of my confusion comes from. Suddenly it is okay to kiss Ree. One month ago we were hanging out, watchign movies, and I dont think I had ever even hugged her, and now we're kissing like it's the most normal thing in the world. I'm still trying to wrap my mind around this! To wrap things up, on the car ride home I was put in these bondage cuffs and as Daniel held them, Ree decided to snap me with more elastic bands because I was being my normal sarcastic self. ...again, if this happend one month ago, I'd be mortified.


Here is my thought process on this..and I'm hoping some of you out there have feedback, and I hope Ree and Rowan will also post their thought process. First of all...is this wrong???? Should friends be doing this?? Am i worrying too much??? Should I stop worrying about losing friends due to awkwardness and just roll with whatever happens..as long as we are all consenting? Should we all talk and stop this before it has a chance to go any further? Should I feel happy that I'm having the opportunity to do something so kinky/exciting with friends when most people dont ever get that opportunity? or am i just looking wayyyy too much into this?


so that is my delema on the friend's aspect of it..now here is my own personal dimlemma: Do i really think i can be a submissive? I know you all dont know me, but I am stubborn, spiteful, and other than in the bedroom, i wear the pants in the relationship and I"m not sure if I could take them off and hand them over to Daniel. The idea of being submissive is a huge turn on, but actually giving him that control is something I dont know if i can do. On top of all of this confusion I have three doms...(Ree is a sub for Rowan, but she sure can pull off a dom quite well when she wants!), and having a three to one ratio is scary, but exciting all at the same time..ahhh so confused...advice would be great!

---Lyta

Spanking with friends

As Ree explained, I may have crossed a line that we should have discussed first this past weekend. In the heat of the moment (after quite a bit of prodding and taunts from little Ms. Ree) I wrestled her to the ground, dropped her pants and spanked her. This would have not been any sort of big deal........ If our friends weren't there. In my defense, Ree had been bratting for quite a while and needed to be disciplined.... I guess I just couldn't wait. lol. But, as Ree said, we discussed things and we are back to normal.

But, on to more fun stuff. Ree is correct, we have been able to share a part of our lives with people other than each other which has been a blast. I have to give Daniel a lot of credit, he's given me some great ideas for "dealing" with Ree when she needs it.

Over this past weekend the four of us went for a small car trip to get Ree fitted for her bridesmaid's dress. Along the way, Ree decided she wanted to feel what it was like when the shoe was on the other foot so to speak, and started to top Lyta. The two ladies were sitting together in the back seat and Ree started to heckle Lyta. She placed a hair elastic around Lyta's wrist and snapped it which of course got the desired response from Lyta. This continued for a while until Daniel began to get in on the action as well. This continued until we got to the bridal shop and everyone's minds became occupied with other things.

After the fitting, we wandered around the mall that the bridal shop was attached to. Inside a store my eyes came across a set of nylon rope japanese bondage cuffs. I was excited to say the least. Ree and I then remembered that Lyta's birthday had recently passed and we still owed her a present. We purchased two sets (we weren't going to let the opportunity pass by for us either) and hid them from Lyta until we got back in the car and were on our way home. Lyta tried on the cuffs and showed them to Daniel who was in the frot seat. Daniel took the opportunity and grabbed hold of them pulling them taught. Lyta spent the rest of the car ride home with her hands and arms in the front seat being tugged around by Daniel. The whole trip was quite a blast.

Ree and I have gotten some good use out of our set, and I hope Daniel and Lyta have been able to do the same. I anticipate many interesting weekends with Daniel and Lyta and we'll be sure to let you know about them. Hopefully our next post will be about the weekend before this one where quite a few interesting things happened........ Stay tuned.

Rowan

Spanking with Friends

This past weekend two really interesting things took place. I had my first spanking in front of other people, and Rowan and I were asked to be in Daniel and his fiancé Lyta’s wedding!!! We're both really excited about it!

If you recollect, Daniel is the Dom that I ended up sharing this blog with. He hasn’t given me a hard time about it. Truly, I find the fact that both he and Lyta know about it to be extraordinarily freeing. Rowan and I can be ourselves around them. In all parts of my life this part, the Domination/submission and Domestic Discipline part – must be concealed. For a great time, I could express myself only with Rowan and he with myself. Nowadays, I can be completely candid about myself with Daniel and Lyta.

I think that perhaps Rowan got a little too comfortable with Daniel and Lyta. I was giving Rowan a difficult time, which clearly, I should not have been doing. I was taunting him, telling him that he could not spank or discipline me in any way because we were spending the weekend with Daniel and Lyta. Now Daniel has offered on many occasions to allow Rowan space to “take care” of me. Rowan has never taken Daniel up on his offer. At this point I wish that Rowan had. Since Rowan decided to wrestle me to the ground in our friends’ living room, yank my pants down, and spank me. He probably only spanked me five or six times using his hand. It didn’t even hurt, but my pride was hurt, very, very hurt. I didn’t and don’t care about being spanked in front of our friends, but being exposed, and just having to lie there and wait until Rowan was done because I was pinned down and couldn’t move, was absolutely humiliating, mortifying, and shameful.

When Rowan let me go I ran to the bathroom and sat in there by myself trying to wrap my mind around what had happened. I love Rowan and that will never change, but I was so incensed. I was furious that he would just expose me without having given me any warning or without us having talked about the issue first. To tell the truth, if Rowan was going to do that in front of anyone, I suppose that Daniel and Lyta were the best since they didn’t seem too embarrassed or even surprised. Still, I had to get out of there, I had to go and feel sorry for myself, by myself. After fighting with Rowan for a good hour after coming out of the bathroom he gave me the keys to the car so that I could have my much needed space to myself. I drove around town and thought about what had happened, trying to pull my thoughts together so that I could explain to Rowan how I felt.

Once I figured out my own feelings, I went back talk with Rowan. By then Rowan had also had time to think about the events that had taken place, and we were able to talk about it. Everything is fine now. My pride is still a little hurt, but I guess it could worse.

Lots O love

-Ree